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The Pretty Lie vs The Ugly Truth: What We Owe Each Other in Grief
In grief, we often face a quiet tension: choosing between the pretty lie that softens the moment or the ugly truth that holds real weight. Pretty lies feel protective, but they delay what is already true. And when the bubble bursts, it can add another layer of hurt. Sometimes the most compassionate thing we can offer is clear, honest truth - spoken with tenderness, and met with presence.

Melissa Blum
Nov 24, 20253 min read


The Soundscape of Grief
Explore the soundscape of grief, how the songs that comfort and reflect us change over time, from numbness to acceptance to what lies beyond

Melissa Blum
Oct 22, 20252 min read


The soup of emotions
Emotions aren’t linear. Grief is a soup of sorrow and joy, guilt and love - all valid, all welcome.

Melissa Blum
Sep 18, 20251 min read


When the World Changes, but Your Mind Doesn’t: Why Grief Isn’t Erased by Milestones
Grief doesn’t always shift when the world does. Here’s why milestones may not bring relief—and how ritual can meet you in the in-between.

Melissa Blum
Jul 11, 20252 min read


When Grief and Motherhood Collide
Parenting through grief is heavy. This tender reflection reminds you—you’re not failing. You’re human. You’re still showing up.

Melissa Blum
Jul 4, 20252 min read
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