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The Pretty Lie vs The Ugly Truth: What We Owe Each Other in Grief
In grief, we often face a quiet tension: choosing between the pretty lie that softens the moment or the ugly truth that holds real weight. Pretty lies feel protective, but they delay what is already true. And when the bubble bursts, it can add another layer of hurt. Sometimes the most compassionate thing we can offer is clear, honest truth - spoken with tenderness, and met with presence.

Melissa Blum
Nov 243 min read
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The Soundscape of Grief
Explore the soundscape of grief, how the songs that comfort and reflect us change over time, from numbness to acceptance to what lies beyond

Melissa Blum
Oct 222 min read
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The soup of emotions
Emotions aren’t linear. Grief is a soup of sorrow and joy, guilt and love - all valid, all welcome.

Melissa Blum
Sep 181 min read
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When the World Changes, but Your Mind Doesn’t: Why Grief Isn’t Erased by Milestones
Grief doesn’t always shift when the world does. Here’s why milestones may not bring relief—and how ritual can meet you in the in-between.

Melissa Blum
Jul 112 min read
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When Grief and Motherhood Collide
Parenting through grief is heavy. This tender reflection reminds you—you’re not failing. You’re human. You’re still showing up.

Melissa Blum
Jul 42 min read
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